There have been resistances and points of fear that I pushed through to write this first blog. I've been pushing off self-writing as it is, I'm stopping it for myself. I stop it with this first post and next post and next post and all posts to come. I've seen the effectiveness of self-forgiveness within myself and I realize that this is a reaction to my direction to commit to self-writing as FEAR.
There is a fear of commitment. I've never committed myself to anything for 7 years, willingly, let alone every single day for seven years straight. As I'm writing this out, I push through the illusion of fear. There was a point of fearing the change in myself that I would see as I continued to write for self-forgiveness for 7 years minimum. Would I see myself slip away? Would I cease to exist? Obviously this is my mind projecting a future scenario as fear of non-existence to become distracted for a moment, I'm still here, right now, and, no I will not cease to exist by typing out blogs. There's the fear of hearing/seeing what others might think of me when they see that I'm writing this blog. In these words I see that I have a fear of exposing myself to people I know, I have a fear of people knowing who I am; I've been afraid to become self-intimate with me. The fear of 'not having anything to write about' is odd since I know I do have so much to write about. This point of fear alludes to a desire to exhibit my writing as 'entertaining' for other people when this writing is simply about writing myself out and self-forgiving the thoughts, feelings, and emotions; it doesn't have to look pretty or read nice.
This will be a daily process of seeing and identifying the patterns I've created for myself and removing those patterns to really become a blank slate to create myself into and as a living being, not a being of patterns and systems. I breath through the process, one breathe at a time - moment by moment. I will do this through writing out all the patterns and systems I act by, by writing myself out, whether it be on paper or on the keyboard so I can see with my own eyes what I've accepted and allowed myself to participate and live as. Then I forgive myself for accepting and allowing myself to be/participate/become the patterns/systems/thoughts,feelings, and emotions that deceive myself and others and in self-forgiveness I become self-honest. I then write out the self-corrective statements and self-corrective applications so, by my word, I never allow myself to participate in those thought patterns and systems, feelings/emotions again.
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I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to resist self-writing.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to resist self-forgiveness.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to resist self-forgiveness.
I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear writing myself out because of seeing who I am through the self-writing.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in a reactionary self-defense mechanism to self-writing by pushing if off for days and not seeing that I’m only allowing myself to perpetuate the procrastination and bullshit that I’m allowing myself to live as.
I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear committing myself and dedicating myself to self-writing everyday so I can see myself in physical word form and know myself for who and what I really am.
I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear committing myself to a process of self-writing and self-forgiveness for 7 years, everyday of the year, straight through until I get it done and remove all of the self-deceptive points I keep within myself.
I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear the change I will bring in myself through self-writing and self-forgiveness because I have realized that the tools of self-writing and self-forgiveness have been proven effective to me as a process of removing systems that support ego and thought constructs and I as my mind fears losing itself in this way.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to participate in fearing to lose myself; fearing to die.
I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear hearing and/or seeing what others think of my committing myself to a seven year process to nothingness.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear what others are thinking.
I forgive myself that I’ve accepted and allowed myself to fear exposing myself to my friends and/or family.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear people knowing who I really am.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear being self-intimate by and through a process of self-writing and self-forgiveness.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear ‘not having anything to blog about’.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to desire exhibiting myself as an entertainer through writing.
I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear boring others with my blogs.
I realize that I am not the reaction in self-defense to push myself away from self-writing.
I realize that I am not the fear of committing myself to blogging for seven years. I realize that this process will be a process of writing and blogging, day by day and takes time. I realize that 7 years passes in a moment
I realize that I am not the fear of change; I am not the fear of changing myself into a living being instead of a systematized organic robot.
I realize that I am not this fear of hearing/seeing what others are thinking/speaking about me; I realize that I am not the fear of what others think.
I realize that I am not the fear I have of exposing myself to others and I am not the fear of self-intimacy.
I realize that I am not this desire to entertain people through my blogging.
I realize that I am not required to make sure that other people are not feeling bored.
When and as I see myself going into the reaction of fearing commitment/fearing self-writing/fearing self-honesty, I stop and breathe and I realize that I am going into a reaction and looping myself into fear, I then stop myself from fearing the commitment, fearing self-writing, and fearing self-honesty and a I let it go with one moment of breath.
When and as I see myself going into a reaction of fearing change, I stop myself from participating in the reaction, I breathe and I realize that I am going into reaction and putting myself in this position of fear, so I stop myself and let go of the fear in one breath.
When and as I see myself going into a reaction of fearing self-exposure and self-intimacy, I stop myself from participating within the fear of change, I breathe and I realize that I am putting myself into the reaction of fear, so then I stop myself and I let the fear go with a breath.
When and as I See myself going into a reaction of fearing what people are thinking, I stop myself from participating in the fear of what others think, I breathe and I realize that I am putting myself into the position of reacting fearfully to what others are thinking, so I stop myself and let the fear go with a breath.
When and as I see myself go into a reaction of fearing my self-writing as not being entertaining enough, I stop and realize that I am causing myself to participate in this fear, I breathe and I let the fear go.
Very cool Cam - thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteCool for beginning, Cam!
ReplyDeleteAwesome :) I initially was reactive to this as well. I was like: why? What's the point. Another obligation. LOL. But within a minute I saw the point and found it an excellent idea.
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ReplyDeleteAwesome Cam - glad you are here in self-commitment, walking with us this Journey to life!
ReplyDeleteCool Cam! Thanks for walking
ReplyDeleteAwesome share here, keep them coming, thanks.
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